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Closing the Bones with rebozo
Closing the Bones, also known as Cerrada or Cerrada de Caderas, is a traditional postpartum ritual that originates in Mexico and has long been practiced by traditional midwives (parteras) as a way to care for women after birth. Using the rebozo — a long woven shawl that is part of Mexican cultural heritage — the ritual gently wraps and rocks the body, symbolically and physically supporting the mother as she transitions out of pregnancy and birth.
In many traditional cultures, this ritual was offered during the postpartum period to help the mother feel held, nourished, and supported as her body and spirit integrated the experience of birth. The practice is both deeply physical and symbolic: the gentle wrapping of the body represents a closing of the birthing journey and a moment of care for the mother, who is so often the one holding everyone else.
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The ceremony usually lasts between 2 and 3 hours and can include warming practices, rest, herbal tea, and the rebozo closing ritual itself. It is often a quiet and intimate experience designed to offer the mother time to slow down, be cared for, and honor the transformation she has gone through.
The Closing the Bones with Rebozo ceremony costs 285 euros, and is hosted at Fern's workplace, in Rotterdam. This ceremony can often be booked on shorter notice and is the only ceremony I host in my own space, creating a calm and supportive environment for the mother.
This ritual is a gentle reminder that the mother also deserves to be held, witnessed, and cared for after the immense work of bringing life into the world.
Disclaimer
I work as an independent celebrant and ceremony facilitator, and my work is not tied to any specific religion or spiritual tradition. My training was completed through the School of Celebrancy, run by the Order of Bards, Ovates and Druids (OBOD), an organization dedicated to honoring nature-based traditions and the art of meaningful ceremony.
While this background informs my approach, each ceremony is created with complete openness and respect for the people it is meant for. The language, symbols, and rituals can be adapted to reflect your personal beliefs, cultural background, and the intentions you wish to bring into the moment.
My role is simply to help hold a meaningful space where your story, your connection, and your celebration can unfold with authenticity, care, and presence.
Frequently asked questions
Where does the ceremony take place?
The ceremony takes place in Fern’s working space in Rotterdam, which is prepared to offer a calm, warm, and private environment where the mother can fully relax and receive care.
Do I need to prepare or bring something?
No preparation is needed. All materials used during the ceremony are included in the price, including the rebozos and any elements needed for the ritual. You may simply come in comfortable clothing and allow yourself to rest and receive.
How long does the ceremony last?
The ceremony usually lasts between 2 and 3 hours, allowing time for the body to relax and for the closing ritual to be performed slowly and with care.
Is there a time limit after birth to receive this ceremony?
No. While this ritual is traditionally offered during the postpartum period, there is no time limit. It can be meaningful weeks, months, or even years after giving birth, whenever the mother feels called to mark this transition.
Can this ceremony be done after a miscarriage or an abortion?
Yes. Closing the Bones can be a deeply supportive ritual after miscarriage or abortion, offering space to acknowledge the experience, care for the body, and gently close that chapter with tenderness and respect.
How much does the ceremony cost?
The Closing the Bones with Rebozo ceremony costs 285 euros, and this price includes all materials used during the ritual.
Do I need previous experience with rituals or ceremonies?
Not at all. This is a gentle and supportive experience designed to meet you exactly where you are, offering a moment of care, rest, and integration for your body and your story.
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